Soulmate Secret newsletter #23 September 2, 2009

Dear Soulmate Manifesters,

Over the weekend we went to see 500 Days of Summer, a film that is described as a romantic comedy but is actually more like an anti-fairytale. It’s about a boy who falls head over heals for the kind of girl who doesn't believe in love or fate. How’s that for a twist?

It all begins when Tom catches sight of Summer, the new assistant at work, and his heart gets whiplash. He's been waiting for love, as one reviewer put it “like a winning lottery ticket, and now he thinks he can claim it.”

Summer is friendly but remote as she maintains a protective force field around her heart…which, of course, makes her all the more desirable to young and naïve Tom.

What I loved about this film is how it demonstrates the importance of “deep listening” and “heart discernment.” From nearly the first moment they meet, Summer tells Tom that she doesn’t believe in love, isn’t looking for a relationship and isn’t interested in anything more than a little fun and friendship.

Tom, already in a haze of infatuation, isn’t listening. Over 500 days, the two hang out, go to movies, dinners, karaoke bars and have romps in the hay. In Tom’s mind they are a couple, in Summer’s they are friends with benefits.

The lesson in this film is, quite simply, to “hear” the other. Summer wasn’t leading him on, she was forthright about what she wanted, Tom just chose to not listen.

One of the most inventive scenes in the film is when Tom is invited to a party at Summer’s apartment. On half of the screen we see what Tom is thinking and expecting. On the other half of the screen is the reality (which doesn’t match his expectations) and the result is devastating to him."

It’s important that when your inner guidance is sending you “red flags” that you align your expectations with the reality of what someone is sharing with you. If they are communicating to you that they are not interested in a relationship, even though they may be spending tons of time with you, LISTEN to them. Don’t think that they will: 1. get over it 2. you can change their mind, 3. they are just “scared” or 4. That you have enough love for both of you.

If you are committed to manifesting the love of your life, then don’t invest your precious time or your heart in someone who is enjoying your company but can’t or won’t commit to you. You deserve to have Big Love with someone who cherishes and adores you. If you need a little support, please visit www.soulmatesecret.com and click on Great Stuff and then find the “Free Stuff” page with the feelingizations and videos.

Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,

Arielle


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