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 Dear
Soulmate Manifesters,
It was the Fall of 1991 and I remember looking into his big brown eyes
and feeling my heart expand to the far reaches of the Universe. My body
was tingling and I was filled with the yummiest sensations. My mind was
filled with the thoughts such as “he must be my
twin-soul,” “finally I’ve found my
One,” “this is so amazing.” It was like
the best possible drug and I was willing to become an addict.
The
problem was that (a) I didn’t know a thing about him (b) I
was completely delusional (c) he was ALREADY married (d) even though my
body was saying YES there was a sane voice in the back of my head
saying “hey, hello, hellloooooo, anyone home? Wake
up!”
I spent a few weeks in this delirious state of stolen moments (he would
fly into town for a few hours and fly home to be with his family),
hours on the phone, fantasies that somehow all these feelings MUST mean
this is meant to be, right? Wrong.
There was nothing right about this situation. (one obvious clue: I
wasn’t talking about this with anyone, especially my closest
friends)
I was compromising my values on so many levels.
Did I really want a guy
who would behave this way? No.
Did I want to spend any part of my life
being the other woman? No.
How long was I willing to be swept away with
these dramatic feelings and make up all kinds of crazy stories that
somehow we must be meant to be together?
Luckily not long at all.
In a moment of searing clarity I decided to tell him that we were
through. We would not be friends. We would not stay in touch. He
offered to leave his wife and move 500 miles to be near me but I just
said no. I didn’t trust someone who was willing to throw away
their life to be with someone that they truly didn’t know.
Were there moments when I thought “how can something that
feels this good be so wrong?” YES and I let the thoughts and
the feelings float by as I stayed anchored in my heart of hearts that
chose to do the right thing.
Was it hard? Making the decision was the hardest part. Was it the right
decision? Absolutely, one million percent.
This experience led me to get very clear about the type of man and the
kind of relationship my heart truly desired. And as most of you know,
that all came to fruition a few years later when I manifested Brian.
True love is never about compromising your values or morals. Learn to
trust that at the right time and with the right circumstances love (not
just hormonal frenzy) will be yours.
Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,
Arielle
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